WitchAngel's Diary
sexualtiy issues
Added: December 9, 2004, 9:05 pm (
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ok, i need to write about another thing. I am pretty sure i'm bisexual. My friends don't have anything agains that sort of thing, but i'm not sure how to tell them after i've known them all for so long. And would they take me seriously, knowing that i haven't had much in the way of boyfriends, and so don't really know what i want. Perhaps i am just going through a phase? i'm not sure. I can't tell how i feel, only that i am attracted to certain women as well as men. How can i tell my friends? I can't just randomly bring it up. Help? won't someone answer me?
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Added: December 9, 2004, 11:33 pmBy: redstar
hey, i had the same problem a few years back when i also discovered that i'm bisexual. what i did was just told me closest friends, and then after that if we were on the topic, i'd tell other people. i find that most people are pretty cool about it if you let them know that you're not going to hit on them, like your friends. it's not too hard.
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Added: January 12, 2008, 5:08 amBy: hottie10
u should tell ur friends that ur bi. if they were really ur friends they wouldn't care if ur bi. so i say u should tell them
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Added: June 5, 2008, 6:27 pmBy: lilc189026
if they are your true friends they will understand your situation and know that its not going to change anything.
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I'm there
Added: July 13, 2008, 11:16 pmBy: GurlInLuv
I totally know how your feeling b/c I'm there right now! I just find out a couple years ago that I am attracted to women as well as men. And I totally understand where you're coming from with telling your friends. I'm going to tell you what I have done... yeah, sure people say that if your friends care about you then it shouldn't matter but that doesn't help you... I have told my husband (who said he could see I was bi before I even discovered it myself) and I told one of my friends b/c it came up! We were on the subject and she was saying how that stuff doesn't bother her so I just came out and told her. She doesn't care. Now, none of my other friends know b/c it hasn't come up. I would just do that... if the topic comes up and it's one of your closest friends then just tell them. I still only have two friends that know, one knows that I'm persuing to find a girlfriend and the other just thinks that it's something I'm struggling with. Which is only half true, I'm struggling with it b/c I can't find a gf. Just be patient with yourself.
I hope I helped. I know what it's like to have this problem and there aren't many people there to help you.
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